As of late I have had many people approach me to purchase homes but they need to sell their home first before they can do so.  This can be one of the most frustrating situations for a buyer/seller combo as there are many factors to consider, and many different situations you could find yourself in.  Below are five things that you should do and experience throughout the whole scenario.

1. Prepare to be stressed

Buying a home is stressful. Selling a home is stressful. When you do both at the same time, the experience is super stressful, not to mention emotional and difficult on many levels. You’re potentially carrying two mortgages or trying to time the purchase with the sale. There will be a lot of sleepless nights, worrying over finances and pressure to make a decision. It’s enough to ignite a family war.

Accepting upfront that this process will be extremely stressful will help in the long run. Know that most homeowners go through this, and there is success at the end of the long, dark tunnel. Plan everything as much as possible in advance. Do your homework. And take care of yourself. You’re going to be busier than usual.

2. Meet with your agent early on

Owners often believe their home is worth more than what the current market will bear. That’s why it’s important to meet with your real estate agent early on, even months before you plan to buy or sell. Researching online valuation tools or doing basic research will help to guide you. But I will help you understand your home’s true current market value and marketability. A good agent is in the trenches daily and knows your neighborhood and market inside and out.

3. Learn the market where you want to purchase

After getting some hard numbers for your home’s sale you need to do the same on the purchase side. What’s on your wish list?  What are your priorities? Determine your needs and understand what you will get for your money on the purchase side. You need to know this to factor in how financing will work with the buy/sell. Also, understand that market. Is it more or less competitive than where you live now? How long can you expect to search for a home? This will factor into your sale timing. If you’re moving within the city or town where you live, your listing agent will likely serve as your buying agent. If you’re moving just outside your area, you may need to ask your agent to refer you to an agent knowledgeable about that area.

4. Know your numbers

Once you understand the numbers on both the purchase and the sale, you need to know your financing options. Many people today don’t have a strong-enough financial foundation to purchase another home before selling their own, so knowing this upfront can help you plan more appropriately.

Engage a local mortgage broker or lender and understand what kind of down payment you’ll need to make a purchase, given the price point and type of home you seek to buy. How much equity do you have in your current home, and is the equity available? Do you have enough of a down payment liquid and would a lender allow you to make the purchase before selling the home? Find out by going through the loan pre-approval process. A good, local mortgage professional is as valuable as a good real estate agent.

5. Make a plan

Now that you know your numbers, it’s time to come up with a plan and execute. The plan can vary greatly, depending upon any number of conditions. Some examples:

• Buying in a competitive market? Adding a contingency that your current home must sell before you buy probably won’t work.
• Selling in a competitive market? You may be able to negotiate with the buyer for a longer escrow or even a rent back. This would buy you time on the purchase side.
• Selling in a slow market and buying in a competitive market? Need the sales proceeds in order to do the purchase? Unfortunately, you’re in the worst-case scenario. Consider the option of selling your home first and moving into temporary housing. While not the most physically convenient, it could be less stressful.
• Need temporary housing? Start researching those options now well in advance

Understanding the variables

• There are so many variables that can come into play when buying or selling. Each one may affect your decision-making process. Identifying and planning for the variables as much as possible early on will help you avoid sleepless nights, stressful days, or fights with your spouse or partner.  In my experience with home sales, you lose a lot of negotiating power, you almost succumb to the seller, as you are asking for them to wait on you to sell your home.  There are a couple of different things that can be done. 

• Interim or bridge financing- Talk to your financial provider and see if you are able to pay a mortgage on both homes if you have too.  Although it is a little bit more pricey, you gain your negotiation power back, and most of the time your home will sell if it is priced competitively.  Then it is a matter of negotiating possession dates accurately so you do not incur that additional cost, or mortgage payment.

• Option Clause – In a majority of situations a clause will be incorporated into an offer which is called the option clause.  This allows sellers to still show and accept other offers on the same home you have an accepted offer on, however in the initial negotiation of your purchase you and the seller will decide how many hours after the other offer is accepted you will have to remove your conditions.  Most of the time a seller will allow between 48 – 72 hours for you. 

There are many different things that you will experience throughout the ‘domino effect’ but in the end the transaction should be as smooth as any other regular transaction should be.